Back-Up Project: Sexual Harrassment Prevention

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I'm sticking this in general discussion - mods feel free to move it.

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We all know Armageddon is not an arsehole free zone - and cosplaying in public even more so. I'm too feverish (still) to comment sensibly but lookit, thinkit, doooeeet.

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By **JVCA**. 17/03/09, 05:45 pm

I think this does deserve to stay here, but I've changed the title a little. :)

I'm all for it - and would do so before seeing this project, really. I only hope someone might do the same for me.
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Oh fine then...-pouts childishly- Move my topics...Not hers -.-...

Well, I understand. Cause everyone reads the 'general discussion'. So it would be suitable even if kept here! -nodds-

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By **JVCA**. 17/03/09, 07:00 pm

Lol, it was tammy who moved your other topic, not that I remember what it was. XD

But no, I do agree with Mel - cosplay sexual harrassment is actually a problem - not so big a problem here as it is in the states, but still a problem (I've had a guy track me down on msn and try to initiate cyber sex with me, which was the worst thing I've had, and had lewd comments yelled which is the least bad I've had), and anything to encourage each other to look out for each other is really important, so it doesn't GET as bad as it is in the states.

The fact that we're dressed differently makes us more of a target, so it's sadly more likely to happen to us in costume than out of it. (Unless by out of costume you mean naked, in which case I'd say naked would be the most vulnerable!) (<---joke made in poor taste)
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By Mischa. 17/03/09, 07:33 pm

This is a good idea! Sometimes people get a little overexcited and the line between flattering and creepy gets blurred.

(also lol irony at my choice of cosplay)

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I always got weird looks when I went in to the supermarket in Medieval get-up...but everyone in town knew I was weird and in the re-enactment club...and weird, so I didn't get much comments...

But if I hear anyone yelling to people in costume rude comment etc, I get really protective...if I know you...lol but now I am getting to know you guns, be prepared to be protected! *Super-Jackie to the Rescue!*

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By Rolly. 17/03/09, 07:56 pm

Wow, I know I would most certainly be worried about such perverts, creepy guys and the sort trying to have a go at me and eat my tofu.

I think this is a wonderful idea! However, it might just be another creepy guy coming up and trying to act as a nice guy and trying to get a go at you. O_O
Let's just hope that doesn't happen *me and my paranoia*.

By KotoneVersus. 17/03/09, 08:22 pm

Yes. This is a good idea. A very good idea. We need to utilize this.

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By **jpwise**. 27/01/10, 05:17 pm

I agree with the idea completely, and although it's slightly OT I'm always amused by the fact someone thinks they can get away being creepy with cosplayers.

Essentially being creepy to any individual, who's part of a pretty tight group, who all carry weapons/props around at cons, isn't usually the greatest idea in the world. Although the mental images of some creep being chased by an army of cosplayers welding their props is quite amusing. :)
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By Roxas-Has-A-Stick. 05/02/10, 08:42 pm

Hmmm, I've had quite a few problems with sexual harrassment while in costume (it's the whole little friendly girl thing). My advice is to NOT DO WHAT I USED TO DO.

I used to go missing for hours on end at cons, sometimes ending up falling asleep on a stranger. While you'd think someone would be worried about you, in all the fun and excitement, people can go missing and no one'd notice until it's too late. So look out for yourself and don't assume someone else will.

Also be aware of how you look. I don't really know, but I'm sure harassers would prolly pick on someone wearing a short skirt on their lonesome than a group of friends.

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How you look is not important. I've been oogled when I was wearing a day old t shirt and my ugliest pants.
The point is that wearing a short skirt =/= "attention all y chromosome, come hit on me".
Short skirt = hey I love this skirt.

By creature124. 06/02/10, 10:43 am

otz How did I not see this thread when it was first posted?

I suppose I'm probably already a part of the Gentlemen's Auxillary - my best friend is the undefeated master of unwanted attention, so I am very used to stepping in and telling him to back the physics off. Of course, there is no Someone Else's Problem field to deal with in those situations - I consider him my problem ;-;

Realistically, I'd probably only be able to claw my was through that bubble if it is someone I know :\ Too damn timid sometimes.